Okay, I admit it, my experience with being dominant has been with 3 females, no men. And all of them have liked being spanked, which is probably the reason we got along so well.

I have been thinking about taking a male sub, but wouldn't know how to treat him ... wait a minute, that's dumb! Really, how much different can it be? I guess breast bondage wouldn't quite be the same ...

My thoughts are - when I first get a female sub, I delve into her mind, I try to understand her and her thoughts and feelings. Then I start with small tasks, and build up to a level of trust. I have to say, I see my subs as pretty strong women; god knows I couldn't stand the things I do to me! I'm just not sure if I could see a male sub that way. I think I would have a different mindset, although that might just be because it's new. I'm not sure I could have enough respect for a male sub, although I do think it's pretty amazing for them to admit they like to be dominated.

On the other hand, I can see certain advantages to having a male sub.

I'm waffling here - any help would be appreciated!